Thursday, August 23, 2007

蜕变。。。

前几天money来我这儿,谈了很多,发现我们都不再是女孩,正蜕变成女人。。。
发现什么?
~女人都爱听甜言蜜语,只是她们可以选择不相信。。。~
~女人都是口是心非的,所以请男人三思而后行。。。~
~女人从他爱人身上要的是肯定多过鲜花。。。~
~男孩要的都是女人,而男人要的都是女孩。。。~

哈哈!以上纯属个人意见。。。日后还是可以被推翻的。。。
gor gor一直以为我还伤心着。。。然后我回了一封信息给他:
~有长度的东西,涉及范围较广,所以复原得比较慢,哪个地方随便一碰,都是痛处;有深度的东西,只要在同一个地方填补空洞,很快就会被填满。。。我和他,只有深度,没有长度。。。what comes around, goes around。。。对自己要仁慈一点,何必处处执著呢?已经很了解游戏规则了,不管是赢还是输,都要接受。。。~
真的真的不用担心我,爱情不是全部,我还没有颓废到那种‘没了男人/男孩就不行’的地步。。。
这次也学会了一样东西,下次要搞姐弟恋,如果想认真,就要慎选,因为很多男孩搞姐弟恋就是因为他们能从‘姐姐’身上得到许多他们在同龄女生得不到的东西;如果只想玩玩,make sure he doesn't cross the limit,then anything ok。。。当然,心脏可要很强,mind set要很好,才不会让自己深陷于分手后的痛苦中。。。
怎么把自己搞得很想playgirl这样?哈哈,就算是我也是个仁慈的playgirl,只和懂规则的人玩。想玩,我是不会搭上认真型的。。。

~我记得form 4时,我的英文老师问全班的女生(我是女校出身的),自己是good girl还是nice girl。。。我记得我回答:"good girl"。哈哈,现在?我会答:"i'm a nice girl"。。。

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Everyone changes.. and you... who changed from a 'good girl' to become a 'nice girl' is nothing bad..
within the process, u learn alot right? u learnt to be tough, learnt to be faithful within yourself, learnt about different personalities.. no pain no gain girl :-)


*feeling weird why i comment such a lot in your blog?
Ans: I felt super boring studying at home.. so lepak around in my frenz blogs.. 1st place is yours ^^

melody said...

lolz, thanks a lot for ur comments...oooo, boring oni cum to my blog la......har???blek.....ya, learnt a lot....i luv dat, 'no pain no gain'.......^_^

Anonymous said...

Lolz. Well, that i really x unstd at all... Keke. But i think i do roughly can get it la... =)

Erm... Well, cz i saw your comment that day, thats y i bit worried... =p Haha...

Hey, take care o... Nex Mon i will be flying over dy. N over there if x mistaken, they say 1st year no internet conection in d hostel. So cant really read your blog frequently d... =( But will try my best 2 on9 la... =)

Erm... N also, be a good n nice girl ba... Ppl hurting u is better than u hurt other ppl, k? Keke. But it will be best if no 1 hurts 1 another... =p Keke. N this world will be a better place to live on... Wkakakaka...

melody said...

WAD??DUN HAV INTERNET CONNECTION!!!!wah, like dis quite cham wor, hard for me to contact u oso.....well, i heard one of my fren said(he is doing medicine in russia too),normally medic student got no time to on9....quite stress de ..so mentally prepared ya...hey, after u got a number there muz sms me u know, MUZ AH!!!hahaha........*blek*

Anonymous said...

ermm... if busy how to go ur blog woh?? =.="

anyway.. i see that u ard forget the incident ard.. hang out to yamcha sometimes.. loves to listen to ur stories.. :-)
no yamcha no gain ^^

melody said...

to jcx:

ya, i can forget my past...quite faz...plus me n him oni one week, plus i'm bz wiv my studies now, so hahaha....like dis lo....dun worry dun worry...u know me quite well rite?me n hui one gang de, siao po lai de....can laugh together wiv u guyz means i'm edi ok....^_^....

lolz, yam cha?!of coz can la....luv to hang out wiv u guyz too.....keep in touch ya....*doink*

Anonymous said...

what the diff of nice girl and good girl?

Anonymous said...

definition:
nice girl : a girl who is friendly to everyone and can be nice to every guyz
*which makes her easy to get trapped in love :-)

good girl : a girl that behaves herself in attitude and stay away from negative issues
*those kinda guai guai lui who study always :-)

difference :
a nice girl used to be too friendly with guyz till over the "limit distance", trapped in love always
while
a good girl used to control herself in love and limit herself to hang out with female frenz only..


**am i right? not so remember what u told me in car that day already... but it leaves a deep impact in my mind :-)

Anonymous said...

oh ya.. forgot bout your mp3...
this is the link.. hope u enjoy it since i rarely meet u online le..

http://jcx.fileave.com/26152;22825;.mp3

melody said...

jcx: thanks for the mp3 link....n for ur explanation as well....ya, u got it....

*nice girl can mix around wiv girls n boys n sumtimes overlimit...hmm, not reli always trap in luv, c how they handle the problem.....*

*good girl, ya, guai guai lui....always said:"mom said....mom said....dad said...."

Lolz.....my opinion la.....